Are you asking yourself, how do I talk dirty to my boyfriend? If so, you are definitely not alone! There are thousands of girls wondering how to talk to dirty to their boyfriends right now. So, in this post I am going to give you some tips that will get you well on your way to talking dirty to your boyfriend.

Has this happened to you…

You and your boyfriend are in messing around in bed and he says, “Talk dirty to me!”

Wow! Now what do you do? You could get up and run out of the room but that’s not gonna help your relationship at all. You could quickly change the subject but that will probably ruin the mood and annoy him. Or you could say something dirty back to him that will get him super excited and ready to go!

Knowing what to say is the key to talking dirty. It comes from being comfortable with yourself, knowing what your partner wants and being well informed on the subject of dirty talk.

The first thing you want to remember is that talking dirty to your boyfriend isn’t something you just do at any time. You want it to be at the right moment when your boyfriend is in the mood or when you want to get him in the mood. Don’t talk dirty just because you thought it sounded fun to do. If dirty talk isn’t done right then it could kill the mood and maybe even cause problems in your sex life.

Many women want to know what the best way to talk dirty to my boyfriend or husband is. They want to know what to say and when to say it. Well, the truth is that there are a lot of great ways to talk dirty to your boyfriend. The best place is obviously in bed when things are starting to heat up or when you are already going hot and heavy. A couple other good places are in the shower or in a public place where he really might not be expecting it.

Next you want to remember that whether you’re saying something sensual and sexy, making a dirty comment, or sharing a fantasy or fetish, you don’t want your dirty talk to sound forced. Just share the sexual thoughts that pop into your head rather than trying to think of something good to say. And you don’t need to talk dirty to your boyfriend the entire session or every time you’re having sex or messing around.

If you’re nervous about talking dirty you can always start by saying something simple a few times to get the feel for it and calm your nerves. Tell your boyfriend that you like the way he’s touching you or tell him something you like that he does. Compliment something he does sexually or tell him what you want him to do to you. You will probably find that telling him your desires and what you like will end up making the sex much more enjoyable and intense for you and your boyfriend.

If you really just can’t think of anything to say you can always let him take the lead by asking what he wants to do to you or what you should do to him. Guys are usually more than willing to give some direction and talk dirty. Then all you have to do is follow his lead and respond with some dirty talk of your own. After a few sessions like this you will have mastered how to talk dirty to your boyfriend.

Here are some more things to keep in mind if you are timid or shy about talking dirty to your boyfriend:

* Don’t be nervous about it because only you and your boyfriend can hear you and he will love it.

* The more comfortable you get, the better you will be. Just let go of your shyness. Your sex life with your boyfriend should be hot and spicy.

* If you think you are a “good girl” and shouldn’t do things like talk dirty then remember that it has nothing to do with you being good or bad. It’s simply making your sex life more fulfilling for both you and your boyfriend.

* Talking dirty to your boyfriend will make him hornier and want you even more. This is especially true if he asked for it. And it will probably make you feel sexier and hornier because you are seeing your boyfriend enjoy himself more from your dirty talk.

* Making love is best when you totally let go and give yourself to the other person. Learning how to talk dirty and doing it for your boyfriend is part of making sex a more joyful experience for both of you.

Now you know how to talk dirty to your boyfriend. It’s time to try it out! The next time he asks you to talk dirty you will be ready and willing. Or you could just surprise him the next time you two are having a little adult play time. He will love you for it and you will find your sex life getting even better.

Need more tips and advice on talking dirty? I highly recommend this guide:
Dirty Dialogue: A Good Girl’s Guide To Being Bad

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